Sunday, January 09, 2011

Can you say commitment?

I keep thinking about that line, from that movie... hopefully you know the one because I can't for the life of me remember what it's called. It's the preview and the guy asks his buddy, "How do you know when you're in love?" And his friends response is, "When you start wearing condoms with the other women".

Well I feel that there is some twisted truth to this. Except its love when I give up my only sex rule for the Chief. I am a always condoms all the time girl. When he complained vehemently about the feel of condoms I bought half a dozen different types to make him happy. And we found one. If anyone has ever tried Lifestyles Skyns... they are delightful. And these kept us both happy. I got to keep the condoms and he got to feel like he wasn't wearing one.

But things have changed. Much to his pleasure and delight we are now completely condomless. And this is a HUGE HUGE HUUUUGE deal for me. I have never, never, never, ever given in to this rule for anyone for any reason. Except, apparently, for the Chief. And he couldn't be happier. And I'll have to admit I love the spontaneity and I love the feel of just him and just me.

But marketing is 100% against my ability to really truly just kick back, relax, and enjoy it. Has any other women ever noticed that EVERY other commercial is related in some way shape or form to pregnancy. All of these commercials for pregnancy tests, and baby food, and diapers, and books on being a parent etc, etc. It drives me insane.

Oh well. I can't argue with the way his body feels when it's made me all wet, slides in so effortlessly, and it's in some randomly awesome not at all predictable place because condomless sex makes anywhere possible.

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